Have you ever had that feeling:
"I should have done this better."
"If only I had..."
"I wish it turned out this way..."
"That other person looks like they have it all together compared to me..."
When we think thoughts like this, OF COURSE we will feel bad!
You know why?
It's NOT because any of this is true.
We feel bad because Source - our inner-being - does not see our lives that way!
Source sees our potential, our desires launched as a result, plus ALL the wonderful things in store for us.
Source refuses to see anything other than our brilliance and has nothing but LOVE for us.
We, on the other hand are very critical and create shame, guilt, regret through our self-talk.
This tension between the two opinions within us creates the negative emotion just as an indicator to do something about it.
Source never looks back. It is focused on the NOW.
When we match up with Source's loving opinion of us, then we have ALIGNMENT
and ALIGNMENT = JOY.
There is no point comparing ourselves with other people from the outside because we do not have access to the gap within them and their inner-being.
Therefore, the best thing is to FOCUS on is lining up with the loving thoughts the Universe has about us.
This is the TRUE measure of success - How much JOY you feel.
It is the indicator of ALIGNMENT between YOU and the Universe.
So how about telling a kinder story to yourself?
"Things did not work out here, but they did work out there."
"I gained wisdom and clarity through the experience."
"I'm not doing that bad after all."
"I find this fun."
Remember, life experience is about - JOY.
To feel joy.
To live joy.
To flow joy.
My wish for you this Christmas is pure JOY.
In the words of Abraham Hicks:
“There is nothing for you to go back and live over, or fix, or feel regret about now.
Every part of your life has unfolded just right.
And so - now - knowing all that you know from where you now stand, now what do you want?
The answers are now coming forth to you. Go forth in joy, and get on with it.”
Have a joyful Christmas and New Year!